• gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    18 days ago

    it’s because women were historically not allowed to show signs of horniness, so instead they just try to catch someone else’s attention by being really loud and doing crazy things.

  • MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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    17 days ago

    All I see is immature-horny, and I pity people stuck trying to work these issues out with those similarly-afflicted, almost and much as I do those so-afflicted and yet preyed-upon by those of us old-and-experienced-enough to have no business acknowleging such issues directly.

    As a parent, I’ve seen some shit. As a vaguely-upstanding-member-of-society, the only person I’ve told is my wife, so she can discretely steer our daughters towards keeping such private or at-least away from the notice of adults. To my surprise and relief, I’ve not had to say anything to my sons about their should-be-kept-private behaviors … they are surprisingly more discrete than I remember being capable-of at such age.

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        16 days ago

        I have regrets from my youth that I am surprised and relieved my sons haven’t replicated.

        For the rest, I’m glad I’m not a single-parent. Feigning ignorance may not be more moral than calling things out in the moment, across the generational, gender, and familial-divide(sue me if that’s a non-term, I’m not creative or motivated-enough to do better at this moment), but I believe it was less-awkward and seems to have worked-out.

        • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          15 days ago

          so … your “lesson learned” is to not be awkward? did i summarize that correctly?

          if that’s your point, well, awkwardness is in the eye of the beholder.

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          16 days ago

          your kids didn’t inherit prion disease girl horny?

          edit: you previously mentioned daughters, did they inherit prion disease girl horny?

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        17 days ago

        Eww, who said I was into “upstanding” women?

        That said, you’re still calling-it-out even if you’re proud of it or whatever. I’m just highlighting that the behavior isn’t hurting anyone besides maybe those doing it themselves, and its the society that shames alternatives, and the predators mainstream society fosters, that makes any of it a problem.

        I will admit, I have no real idea if this place is celebrating voluntary or involuntary feminine celibacy - I just prefer anyone who’s NOT a racist, bigotted pedo-capitalist to be comfortable in their own skin, whether their comfort looks like self-acceptance or working towards changes they want to see … or more-often, working towards changes that can lead to self-acceptance.

        Believe me, 0yo-mid-20’s, I was more of an example of why society is right to be un-comfortable with certain alternatives to the OP, as well as fitting OP’s description most of the time I wasn’t sleeping in-general, and I still don’t imagine that I am at-all pleasant to be around in-person(MUCH less horny, thankfully, and more conventionally-attractive/hygenic, but still a twitchy, erratic, mess of a persona), but I’m not here to shame or exploit.

        Just … have you seen non-mainstream “awkward male” spaces over the last forever now? I fit-in less there than with the normie-sportsball-crowd. Slide me some hormone tablets and a pair of heels already, or shove me in the corner and tell me to shut-up. Its your house.