• starik@lemmy.zip
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    Their minds are wet cement, and you can write whatever you want into it. Teach them some supernatural BS at that age, and they will believe it for the rest of their lives.

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      The quote you are looking for is “Give me a child until he is 7 and I will show you the man.” This saying is attributed to Ignatius of Loyola, the founder of the Jesuit order,

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        They applied that same logic to Indian Residential Schools in Canada … but they weren’t trying to grow men … they just wanted to get rid of the Indian inside the Indian.

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          “Kill the Indian, and Save the Man”: Capt. Richard H. Pratt on the Education of Native Americans Beginning in 1887, the federal government attempted to “Americanize” Native Americans, largely through the education of Native youth. By 1900 thousands of Native Americans were studying at almost 150 boarding schools around the United States. The U.S. Training and Industrial School founded in 1879 at Carlisle Barracks, Pennsylvania, was the model for most of these schools. Boarding schools like Carlisle provided vocational and manual training and sought to systematically strip away tribal culture. They insisted that students drop their Indian names, forbade the speaking of native languages, and cut off their long hair. Not surprisingly, such schools often met fierce resistance from Native American parents and youth. But the schools also fostered a sense of shared Indian identity that transcended tribal boundaries. The following excerpt (from a paper read by Carlisle founder Capt. Richard H. Pratt at an 1892 convention) spotlights Pratt’s pragmatic and frequently brutal methods for “civilizing” the “savages,” including his analogies to the education and “civilizing” of African

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            Reminds me of how proud I am to remember one of my uncles.

            Some of my dad’s family went to St Anne’s Residential School in Fort Albany in northern Ontario in the 1950s … it’s famous as a very brutal institution that did terrible things. Dad had one older brother who was famous for being thrown out of the school and told to not return. He was very rebellious and constantly fought with everyone the entire time he was there. He was regularly beaten and punished when he was smaller and younger but he never stopped fighting back. He was a naturally strong and built young boy. When he turned 12, he was built like a full grown man and was known to punch out and beat any of the priests and brothers. They couldn’t handle him at one point, sent him home and just told him not to return.

            My cousins in that family are some of the toughest, strongest most brutal people I know. I’m glad I’m related to them because anyone who ever crossed them on the street didn’t do so good.

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          Well, Jesuits were the child fucking colonialist spearhead of Catholicism in south Asia and parts of Latin America to further destroy local cultures and complete the cultural side of genocides. So, that tracks.

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    I would see it the other way around. It explains their often sudden and unexpected tantrums.

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      as someone with autism and autistic meltdowns I have a lot of empathy for toddlers and small children. Some parts of my brain just haven’t grown up like the others.

  • You gotta try and remember this constantly when dealing with small children. They have zero context and see everything for the first time. What really hammered this home for me was learning that they take a few weeks to learn that the things flailing about in their field of vision are their arms and then they take some more time to learn that they can control them.

    It’s like getting dropped in the most complex game where every key on the keyboard is used thrice, nothing is explained and you don’t even know where the keyboard is or where to plug it in.

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    Back when I was a toddler, I used to think that every area or locality we live in is a country

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      Hihi, my son was similar until about a year ago

      Every thing we had to travel to he thought was another country or something