• dragontamer@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    What bothers me about this is that the administrators at sh.itjust.works, beehaw.org, and lemmy.world are all being adults about this.

    While this Reddit-like stampede is already trying to create an us-vs-them environment.

    It’s fine. The adults are adulting. Maybe a bit of Reddit deprogramming is all that is needed for people to become more reasonable.

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      Exactly! I’m new here (from Reddit) it’s very clear that some of us new ppl are getting confused as to why instances are having to defed and are getting upset at the admins.

      We are the reason!

      The admins are working hard with the extra traffic and increased exposure to content that may not have previously been welcome in their communities.

      My fellow Reddit refugees, post and comment on the content you want to see, not the drama and the uncertainty right now. Find your ppl in the new communities and start sharing and conversing like the good old days on Reddit.

      • lavender dreams@waveform.social
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        The Reddit deprogramming goes deep, for sure. I still find myself deleting comments here after typing them out because there is a 50/50 chance of getting abuse or arguments from someone for basically anything you post on that site.

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      The us vs them mentality is such a default human reaction, one that you have to actively battle in yourself.

      I like the whole idea of federation and I think the more we use the platform the better and more tailored our experiences will be.

      It’s a ground up, organic process, and we’re still figuring it out. I think things will naturally develop, because that is how this system is set up.

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        fr, I just failed that battle not that long ago lol.

        I think between removing Reddit from my habits and the positive engagement here I’ll be ripe yet!

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          Yea I really like it here. I am suspicious of over positivity, but this feels good. So I’m rolling with it.

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        2 years ago

        To add more context, currently Lemmy doesn’t offer great moderation tools. So if a relatively open instance like lemmy.world interacts with beehaw, beehaw ability to shut down the ‘few bad apples’ coming from lemmy.world is rudimentary at best.

        At a certain point, admins just can’t keep up and have to make a judgment call. Either accept that trolls and bad actors are going to get through or cut off the source of the infection, regardless of whether or not that impacts regular users.

        Beehaw has already stated that they’re open to reconnecting once they have a better way of moderating and dealing with bad actors.

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        2 years ago

        Beehaw.org, a large powerful Lemmy server, has defederated from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works in response to a severe harassment campaign involving porn-spam and death threats.

        This means beehaw.org users and communities are now cut off from Lemmy.world and vice versa.

        The full details are a bit hard to follow, but the TL;DR: Beehaw.org wants a curated community and Lemmy.world doesn’t. Beehaw.org has a tougher sign up process while it’s basically free at Lemmy.world.


        But that’s not a big deal or the real drama. People are all looking into the future. /R/piracy has moved into the Fediverse, as have pornographic servers. So now there are discussions on all sorts of topics and what should be or shouldn’t be federated.

        That’s fine. The federization model works, but differently than what Redditors are used to. So I think people are confused about how things play out on the Lemmy-community.

        • WFH@lemmy.world
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          undefined>Beehaw.org wants a curated community and Lemmy.world doesn’t. Beehaw.org has a tougher sign up process while it’s basically free at Lemmy.world.

          To be fair beehaw seems very different from the joyous anarchic freedom we enjoy here (I’ve been on Lemmy for a week and feel more at home than I ever was on Reddit). No right to create new communities, registration needs approval…

          maybe they’ll come back to the federation, maybe they’ll be their own thing. I hope for the former because there is some great content there too.