Hey Nic Cage, now’s the time.

Orrrr if someone hacked him

To what end, though? What purpose will it serve if you haven’t told him that following those girls is unacceptable to you?

And before somebody tells me it’s always unacceptable, that’s not true. In my relationship, both of us watch porn, and that’s what we consider these Instagram models because they’re often selling their only fans. My husband and I have an agreement that I don’t care what porn he watches, he doesn’t care what porn I watch, we are allowed to pay some only fans subscriptions (not an unreasonable amount, and support small businesses, yo!) Hes just not allowed to converse and develop a relationship with them, and same goes for me. We are very open about it.

What im saying here to you, OP, is that if a behaviour like this bothers you, you need to tell him so he knows rather than just waiting for him to fuck up. Do not operate under the assumption he knows because you may have different upbringings and what may seem obvious to you may not be so obvious to him. Give him the opportunity to be trustworthy in the way you need.

You don’t get to 10 years by playing games like this. You get there by both wanting to put in the work, because relationships are work and communication, and most of this is within the first few years.

Additionally, never be afraid of a relationship ending. There is no such thing as “the one”, there will always be someone that ticks your boxes, so to speak.

Yesss!! I’ve been with the same man for 10 years and we’ve had so many clumsy discussions when working through feelings, but that’s just how communication goes sometimes.

If you’re not bringing up your feelings because you’re afraid it will end the relationship, that’s silly. If that ends the relationship, the relationship would have always ended.

Lol. Lmao.

Does this include the leftists that know mainstream media is biased though? Because I don’t trust the media to report accurately, however I try to combat that by looking at multiple news sources with varying biases rather than fuckin youtube

Fuck I totally forgot about that episode! Maybe we should do away with calling that anatomy “pussy” then. Seems like the femmes have been taking back “cunt”, at least in my circles, so maybe there’s hope there

Precisely!

Oh I am well aware; I have one of my own!

I think they’re calling elon a pussy, which is ironic because a pussy is far stronger than he will ever be

I like this far more than the “taxation is theft” rhetoric.

Like, yes, taxation is theft the way it has been used, but it doesn’t have to be if it’s done transparently and used for the benefit of all.

I love your style, great work!

Start?

Is it supposed to be “every day that ends in ‘y’”?

They’ve already been doing a “buy canadian” campaign and I started shopping at co-op and most of their meat is Canadian so I think we will be okay as consumers. It’ll take time for production to adapt tho

Idk i was just making fun of JBP because of “up yours, woke moralists!”

Everyone is a moralist on the internet, it’s just another way to divide people. The differences between the dems and repubs are just for show. It’s been an oligarchy for decades, it’s just obvious now.

A woke moralist!

Oh fuck that’s a great business model. Maybe one day I’ll open a library/cafe/bar with nice music and atmosphere

I mean, there’s no cheat code to meeting people. It requires you to put yourself out there, and what better way to put yourself out there than to publicly enjoy things you enjoy?

Do things you’re interested in, self express (have fun with clothes, pins, patches, whatever, they make a good conversation starter), notice other people self expressing. As far as approaching people goes, it’s always safe to quickly compliment something somebody obviously put effort into, and then from there you can gauge whether they’re interested in more of a conversation.

An example being if somebody has clearly crocheted their bag or something, you could say something like “that is a great bag, did you make it?/where did you get it?” Big rule when complimenting is ALWAYS be ready to let a conversation end where it starts. You’re just throwing a ball into their court to see if they engage further than a “thank you!” You’re just throwing out a line to see who bites, because nobody owes you their attention, but somebody who wants to give it may make it clear if you open the floor.

Opening yourself up to rejection is difficult and scary, but also just a necessary part of making connections.

Library or bookstore, babeeeey