I set up a self host version of it late last night. It now runs much more smoothly for me. I do agree it feels almost native at this point :)

For iOS as well?

Also, and this is a little vain/stupid I guess, but I hate the name and icon of Squabbles. Makes it seems like it’s a platform to argue, not be a community.

I’d agree. Wefwef is great, although it isn’t as smooth as a native app it seems. But it’s very good regardless. May also be it is a little iffy with iOS 17? Not sure.

I would love to see them bring Sync and/or Boost to iOS with this, but I doubt it. But Wefwef and Memmy are great

If you’re willing to do the full VPS route like it seems, check out Hetzner. In my experience, it has higher resources at a lower cost than other providers like DO.