There are unfortunately a ton of terrible therapists out there. It sucks to have to keep trying new ones because each failure feels like a personal flaw.
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It sounds more like toxic positivity, yeah. CBT is about recognizing what feelings you have, why you’re having them, and what you should do to take care of yourself both immediately and as a future plan to reduce distress.
Oh, he must be the CEO of Dragonbreath.
Isn’t this a screenshot of Tumblr?
I’ve also heard it posed that we’re actually all the same person being reborn into every human that has ever or will ever exist, without regard for chronology. So like the people who are most cruel are our earliest selves and the people who are more empathetic are later versions of us who have learned to be more compassionate.
I don’t believe that, but I like to think about it because it makes me more thoughtful of others.
I dream of being a variety of people all the time, sometimes more than one of them at once, maybe simultaneously as a bodiless observer. I’m often aware that I’m playing a role, but I can’t recall ever retaining the idea of my waking self. It’s like I accept who I am right now, but I sense the experience is transient.
What happens if you eat their eggs/babies? Is it fine and only gross to think about?
Can’t say that was my favorite thing to have staring back at me on the toilet, but I appreciate the thought.
He wasn’t kidding about the swamp.
I don’t think it’s offensive by any means, but I think it would be better as a society to get away from labeling things as masculine and feminine in a way that refers back to a traditional gender binary and assumptions. The A/B system serves that, though it fumbles when your character’s pronouns are also determined by this choice.
Personally I think they ought to make two base bodies (small and large) and then add boobs as a toggle for both. And none of this business with separate hair and face options either.
Assuming you mean eat less of the cereal and not less vegetables, that is what I’m suggesting would be preferable to me, yes.
The listed serving size is 2/3 of a cup for 65% of your daily fiber, but I think in reality most people are pouring much larger cereal bowls. I can understand why many people who try to eat healthy for the first time end up feeling sick if it’s this easy to hit 40 grams of fiber just in the first meal of the day.
I’m not saying no one should ever eat it, just that it seems impractical to me as a meal and more useful as a supplement.
All-natural human failure, fresh from 2018 for for your enjoyment:
Getting 75% of my daily fiber at breakfast and then another 75% of my daily fiber just from eating normally the rest of the day sounds like a lot. I can only see this being a good thing in like a food desert or medical situation where vegetables aren’t an option.
I really think we need different words for these things. In my own experience, consenting to sexual contact with over 18’s as a teenager was a neutral-to-positive experience for me, while being assaulted by under 18’s was not hella fun. I don’t really like that they’re bundled together as the same thing.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Girls is it just me that gets really emotional when singing and I cry so hard that I have to change my blankets? 😭
10·2 months agoPSA for the people who apparently need it: When a vagina is happy it drools a lot. One does not usually pee the bed while masturbating, though the option is available.
No, not that kind of toning. Sara’s toning the fish in the sea.
Police navidad.
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World News@lemmy.world•Sierra Leone’s first lady refuses to condemn female genital mutilation without ‘reliable data’ on harmsEnglish
7·2 months agoMy ears being pierced doesn’t harm me physically, but it does remind me that I used to be someone’s property and that I could be again. I think “it would look cute” is not a valid reason to violate someone’s bodily autonomy.
I think the idea is that the man inadvertantly alerts his wife to his “I don’t know how to use this incredibly simple machine” grift. I think they call it malicious incompetence?






It’s important to vent about these things, and I’m happy to help you with that. Just saying stuff and having someone listen feels way better than keeping it in.