My experience has been similar to yours. It’s disheartening.

Cuz they take it personally and then proceed to project onto you.

People curious enough to look are free to do so :)

OP’s comment history says a lot

Many absolutely cracked artists post on Twitter and nowhere else, that’s the only reason I’ve ever used it.

It’s quite a tall order to be kind to those who want you and those you care about dead.