The quote you are your own worst enemy comes to mind when I think of people on Reddit, Lemmy, and in society overall if I am being honest. People are so emo, sappy, melancholy, cynical, and pessimistic.

So the picture attached to this post says it all. This guy says real life is boring. i disagree because life ISN’T boring, if you actually live it, have hobbies, enjoy learning, creating and well not being someone with a defeatist mindset.

Look how many dislikes I got for saying LIFE ISN’T BORING lol this right here is the problem. most of these people are so toxic and they have nothing else to do but bring their toxicity to things around them.

If your life is boring, it’s because you are living in a manner that isn’t enjoyable to you. Quit your shitty job and find a better one. Move to a different area if your current area it’s not pleasurable to you. Find a higher quality group of friends or become someone that can enjoy their own company. I could keep listening, but I’m not going to make this thread too long.

I’m just telling you what i find mildly infurating. The thread comments will further prove my point more than likely. Prove me wrong.

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    “Why don’t people who are trapped living paycheck to paycheck and exhausted all the just get a hobby? Then they would enjoy life!”

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        Crazy that a person claiming to be so positive is looking at someone complaining about the struggles of poverty and says, “you deserve this life ✨✨✨”

        Your entire energy screams of someone who just started the degree their parents paid for. I’m not saying that’s your actual situation, but that’s what you sound like. Your super simple easy peasy solutions to all life’s problems are akin to telling a struggling fat person that all they have to do is eat less food, and if they try to explain why it isn’t so simple, that they “deserve their reality”.

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          But they would usually just have to eat less food and exercise of course. 🐖 Sometimes people deserve what they get and get what they deserve. I didn’t make the rules. But these are those type of people.

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        No cmon let me have your reality where you are allowed the time and energy to enjoy the breif time we are allowed to live.

        It sounds really nice to live with that privilege :c

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          I grew up poor but even I can see that you are a peasant. This is what keeps you down. You lose by default because you choose to. Just because someone enjoys life they are privileged? 🤢 Disgusting mindset. I’ve seen homeless people enjoy life. Level up please.

          The life I enjoy I travel around internationally and don’t let a government tell me what the fuck to do. So yes I’m free but because I chose to be.

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            From my perspective, it feels like you are the grateful slave who tries to make the most of their severely limited life instead of understanding that our lives shouldn’t be this severely limited and being rightfully indignant about that.

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              Who cares about your perspective you don’t even enjoy life. Talk about dense. Here’s a quote for you. “Lions don’t loose sleep over the opinion of sheep”.

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                Grateful slaves enjoy a life of slavery, I’m not enjoying a life of slavery myself.

                Are you supposed to be the lion lol?

                More like an Ostrich who keeps their head in the sand because they prefer the view. XD

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                    You aren’t better than others for any reason you have made up.

                    You aren’t a lion, you aren’t an apex predator, you are a little person who has a need for others to see the world the way you do, and that’s a fucked up way to be.