I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

  • dkppunk@piefed.social
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    3 days ago

    Absolutely! I wish more male users of these comms would call out their fellow men’s misogyny and not rely on others to do it for them. It would make the spaces more welcoming to a lot more people and create a more positive atmosphere.

    I also love seeing 2 of my fave lemmings in other spaces 🥰

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      3 days ago

      Been missing seeing you as often after Blahaj went down last week! Good to see you again today :)

      Definitely one of the users that make Lemmy a pleasure to be on!!