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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • Well the important thing is that you’re here to tell me I’m wrong about what I do and don’t want.

    You may not have any nuance when it comes to whether or not you want to do things, I get it, kind of. A lot of people here seem to be very black and white about either you want to or you don’t and really can’t wrap their head around the idea that others have shades of gray and conditions that can effect whether or not they want to go.





  • I actually love this. So often I have a plan where I’m like “if you actually want to do this thing, then I’m here and happy to be there with you. But if you’re not really interested but just sticking to the commitment because you’re afraid my feelings will be hurt if you cancel…I promise they won’t let’s just cancel.” But if I say this to someone, they could interpret it as “I don’t want to go”, which isn’t true! If you want to go, I want to go. I just want to gauge your level of wanting-to-go.