This particular headache happened awhile ago, I’m much better at the vetting process nowadays then I used to be.

Basically remembering to mention that I’m bi before activities happen.

EDITED to add alt text (I’ve only done this a few times (in particular for art I’ve done) so I’m not too good at it with memes)

  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    10 days ago

    Besides the obvious ethical issues of somebody polyam dating somebody monog, why do you have a preference?

    • krooklochurm@lemmy.caEnglish
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      10 days ago

      You don’t have to be poly or monogamous. It isn’t an either or thing. I’ve found contentment pursuing a poly life and I’ve found contentment pursuing a monogamous one.

      The idea that you just are one or the other is pretty stupid. There are positives and drawbacks to both.

      I liked the poly women more because there was way, way more group sex. And less insecurity around group sex in general. They were more self actualized about what they liked in women and less insecure about discussing it. More confident sexually. Just my own experience obviously.