Unwittingly had ‘sex’ with a child, realised it was a child, had ‘sex’ a second time.

And wrote a song about it. And then wrote it into his autobiography.

How this man apparently skated through the #MeToo movement unscathed is truly baffling.

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    I am a woman. a lot of men don’t think 14 is children. You can hate me but I know mine and many other woman experiences in life and I’ll tell you most men woild 100% fuck a 15/16yo easy

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      So to recap: Your claim is “all rock stars are child molesters” and your proof is “how dare you question that women have bad experiences with men!”

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            How would you measure this? Set up an Gynoid that looks like a teenage girl and records all interaction with men?

            If you have no data, and cannot measure it, what else is there but the lived experience of many people.

            And even if you had data to prove it’s a small minority of men being creeps towards teenage girls, isn’t it still relevant how that is perceived by said teenagers as they grow up?

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              So we’ve gone from “most” to “many” to “it doesn’t actually matter how many”.

              Still need me to explain why your vibes reporting on this isn’t very compelling?

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                I don’t have the time or resources to make a survey with a representative sample size of how many women have been inappropriately approached by adult men.

                I can tell you that all women I know closely enough to talk about things like that have had issues with being sexually propositioned against their will by older men from their early teens on. That is, of course, anecdotal.

                This is also something regularly discussed in culture. If you’re saying that we need more data, I am with you. If you’re saying you don’t want to consider the topic because we don’t have enough data yet, that feels disingenuous.

                Do I need to explain to you why dismissing people being victimised out of hand because they can’t give you exact enough numbers for your taste isn’t very compelling?

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      Plus the amount of porn where the fantasy is about having sex with a teenager is endless.

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      I’m a man, and most women think it’s okay to have sex with underaged boys. Damn, looks like a stalemate.

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      The men shall decide which of your lived experiences are valid!


      I can’t help but think these people are trying to downplay their sexual attraction to children by pretending every person they’ve oogled was definitely an adult.