• enbyecho@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    LOL. And you seriously don’t see the difference between “hey that’s homophobic” and someone speaking a different language and pointing that out?

    Wow. Ok then.

    • the_crotch@sh.itjust.works
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      5 days ago

      No. “That’s homophobic” and “That’s Spanish” are simply statements of fact. It’s left up to the listener whether they should continue being homophobic or speaking Spanish after it’s been pointed out. It sounds like you’ve chosen to double down on homophobia. Not the choice I’d make, but you do you. Nobodys stopping you. No es mi problema.

      • Senal@programming.dev
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        3 days ago

        If you are going to be basing arguments on statements of fact your comparison should be factual.

        One is subjective opinion and one is relatively objective fact ( assuming actual correctness and there not being some weird exception like a subset language or something ).

        Unless you are personally the global arbiter of what is and isn’t homophobia, in which case ignore me.

      • enbyecho@lemmy.world
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        5 days ago

        Honestly? You don’t make any sense to me. Hopefully you make sense to you.

        It sounds like you’ve chosen to double down on homophobia.

        I’m gay. If a black person uses the N word in a joke are you as presumably Not A Black Person going to instantly assume they are racist? Or will you stop to ask why?

        I’m not saying a black person can’t be racist or a gay person can’t be offensive to other people or even have latent homophobia. But as simplistic as it sounds that’s literally the basic argument here. Many straight people saying “hey thar that’s homophobic” and one gay person at least saying “nah, that’s funny” and being downvoted to hell.

        • the_crotch@sh.itjust.works
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          4 days ago

          But as simplistic as it sounds that’s literally the basic argument here.

          The basic argument of this conversation, between the two of us, was that you claimed people were censoring you, and I pointed out that making observations or even judgement calls about what you said doesn’t prevent you from saying it. Absolutely no one is stopping you from saying whatever you want. I don’t think anyone even tried to. I sure didn’t.

          If you want to turn it into “well I’m gay so I can say homophobic things without judgement, like black people saying the n-word” you’ll have to do it alone because I have no interest in participating in that discussion.

              • enbyecho@lemmy.world
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                4 days ago

                Perhaps the words don’t mean what you think they mean.

                This is not calling them gay as an insult. If it were saying “they are so gay” meaning “they are so bad” then yes. But this is drawing parallels between their behavior and that of gay people in an ironical way in order to highlight their hypocrisy. And frankly to taunt them.

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                    4 days ago

                    Either you are being disingenuous or you are just not very bright. Either way, have a nice day.