• SouthernShao@lemmus.orgEnglish
    9·
    2 天前

    This conversation is stupid. Rape is when sexual acts are performed and one of the individuals included in those acts did not consent. Everything else is idiocy.

  • LeftReddit2@lemmy.worldEnglish
    15·
    2 天前

    I’m not going to form an opinion on this case until it is concluded. I don’t have enough information and I don’t want to be ragebaited or trolled into either side. I’m going to wear my ignorance on my sleeve and also just say I got too much going on in my life to even find the mental bandwidth to fit this into my head anyways.

    I think more people should just say this and confess ignorance. Not form an opinion on something because you feel you have to. You don’t have to.

  • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.netEnglish
    171·
    2 天前

    I’m getting lost in all the straw men, shitposts, trolls and stupid metaphors. Hard to tell which is which these days.

      • Rooskie91@discuss.onlineEnglish
        54·
        2 天前

        This is what happens when you don’t have regulation. If companies were forced to remove hate speech and moderate their content, things could be better.

        • Lovable Sidekick@lemmy.worldEnglish
          62·
          2 天前

          It’s also what happens when your culture promotes depression, entertainment addiction, perpetual debt and a host of other bad things under the guise Freedom! (meaning more profits). Things could be better if we were raised to admire actual achievements instead of inanity. You can ban hate speech but you can’t ban depression, hatred or stupidity.

  • subverted_per@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    1552·
    3 天前

    That’s literally how consent works. Like seriously if i go free use to all, but there’s this one fella that i just dont like and decide no entry for him, he gets no entry. Ill take it cnc style from every man woman and them that can find me, but that guy slips it in just once it’s rape. Simple as.

    • surewhynotlem@lemmy.worldEnglish
      41·
      3 天前

      cnc style

      This is either some lingo I don’t understand, or you’re talking about being precision drilled?

      Which I guess makes some sense. But in my personal experience, I am a very low precision tool.

      • toynbee@lemmy.worldEnglish
        7·
        2 天前

        To be fair, it would probably not be okay for someone unwanted to enter this person while they were precision drilling.

        For some reason an old music video for a Benny Benassi song comes to mind …

        • surewhynotlem@lemmy.worldEnglish
          81·
          2 天前

          I can already see the OSHA training sign:

          “Stay safe! No surprise buttsex in the machine shop”

      • subverted_per@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        48·
        3 天前

        Consensual non-consent. Meaning that a person agrees to do things they might not want to do or involve being forced to do or experience. This would be negotiated ahead of time. And there would still be ways to remove consent through specific criteria like safe-words.

          • nomy@lemmy.zipEnglish
            4·
            2 天前

            The biggest part to remember is consensual, as the other commenter points out, if you’re into “free use” but decide one specific person is a no, that’s a firm no for that person and no explanations are necessary. In safe “lifestyle” communities consent is individual and revocable at any time.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.mlEnglish
    86·
    3 天前

    I have participated in probably over a hundred orgies and gang bangs over the years. Each one we opted to attend, besides the STD tests, had clear rules of conduct, consent, hygiene, etc. If only ten men are invited to participate, then that’s the rule. If you signed up to watch, you just watch, etc. These are not difficult concepts, but some people can’t abide and then have the nerve to he upset when they are thrown out.

  • Hupf@feddit.orgEnglish
    81·
    2 天前

    She did not consent to 1 guys! She only comsented to the first 0.

  • fruitycoder@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    351·
    3 天前

    You already agreed to give me money, why can’t I take all your things? /s

    Honestly the idea of consentual agreement really evade some people?

  • JustPlainDave@lemmy.zipEnglish
    3·
    2 天前

    I mean, did we expect anything different from the guy who’s entire reason for being known is doing a mediocre Napoleon Dynamite impression?

    • 4am@lemmy.zipEnglish
      602·
      3 天前

      Top guy pretends he was in Napoleon Dynamite (but he wasn’t) for a living, and he appears to be defending rape by calling women sluts who deserve it if they’ve ever had sex before

      EDIT: clarified Nonpoleon’s career choices

    • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      483·
      3 天前

      While the other user is correct, it may also be referencing the terribly misogynistic reactions to the Cornell 7 gang rape case that has been a topic of conversation in the US for a hot minute now.

    • msbigtitsbigthoughts@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      283·
      3 天前

      Had a Halloween gangbang that reminded me of the Cornell 7 case and all the reactions to it. Dug this pic up from my saves, thought it fit the vibe so well.