• ameancow@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      The divide between cultures and populations becomes highly apparent on sites like this, which attract a very select group.

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    21 days ago

    Sir Patrick Stewart’s autobiography has a heartbreaking account of his father’s nightly bar visits, and it sounds like he didn’t drink alone.

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    21 days ago

    For référence, there is an ancient in my village of 300 inhabitants that in the 60’s, there were SIX bars. For 300 inhabitants.

    So I guess so.

    Also for reference we only have a bread machine now, no shops of any kind.

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      21 days ago

      we only have a bread machine now, no shops of any kind.

      “We” meaning your village? Your village no longer has shops, but somehow shares a bread machine? Or am I totally misunderstanding this?

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          This sounds so much better than my bread machine where I have to add ingredients, press buttons, and wait four hours, but can never get a baguette

  • Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk
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    21 days ago

    Worked in a pub in the UK.

    Yes, we had regulars. They’d be there nearly every night after work for a quick pint before heading home.

    Very few of them would stay for more than one or two though

  • Jay@lemmy.ca
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    23 days ago

    Yes, my dad was one of them. I haven’t gone to a bar for years but it used to be most smaller bars had at least a few regulars that basically lived there. I remember one old vet that used to show up every day as soon as the bar would open for his daily fix… It got to the point the bar refused to serve him, so he would try and get unsuspecting customers to buy them for him. (This was in the 70’s and 80’s, there were (or at least seemed to be) a lot more alcoholics back then.)

    Also booze used to be a LOT cheaper, so it wasn’t nearly as expensive as it would be now.

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      23 days ago

      I remember stories from my dad about a guy he knew where the bar maid would have to help him with the first drink in the morning because his hands would shake so much.

      The romantic history of the happy drunk is almost entirely fictional. I say almost because I know a few people who are able to take it or leave it, but for the most part the people I know/knew who were drinking either in bunches or daily end up complete and unabridged alcoholics, whether they are active and in serious trouble or have sought help and straightened up, but cannot touch it.

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        I’m one of the rare happy drunks. Don’t drink often, I’m an extremely quiet person usually. But get a few beers in me and my wife says I won’t shut up but she also says it’s the only time she gets to talk to me. I don’t know why, I can’t hold a conversation when I’m sober. Never know what to talk about, my work life is boring so nothing interesting ever happens.

        When I have a few, it’s likeeverything just starts coming out.

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          23 days ago

          You sound very much like me.

          When sober I’m Mr doesn’t talk a lot (but I will listen) after a beer or two I’m away with the chat.

          I become become very vocal…

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      I’ve never been a big drinker but I have a few places around me where beer is $3. And the actual place my wife and I go if we do feel like drinking is our local VFW. I can get a 24 oz frosty on tap for like 2.50. and a jack and coke for 3. Last time we went out drinking spent like $30 total and we were both drunk

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      I remember one old vet that used to show up every day as soon as the bar would open for his daily fix… It got to the point the bar refused to serve him

      So he’d go to this bar during business hours to drink. And this went on to the point where they stopped serving him? Something is missing from the middle of this story…

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    Yeah. My husband went out to the pub 6 nights a week. He’s no longer drinking - quit last year - finally! (I quit in 2009)

    Seriously, alcohol is overrated.

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    23 days ago

    I worked in a bar for a few years and I saw the same people everyday. They would even come in on holidays if the bar was open. Some of them would blow their whole paycheck, I always thought it was kinda sad.

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      In the show Clarkson’s Farm, Jeremy Clarkson is looking around, trying to buy a pub. At one point they talk about wanting to have a pub with a little grocery store attached. Clarkson’s girlfriend explained why that was common at one point in Ireland. It was because in the past men would get paid, go immediately to the pub, and drink until their paycheck was gone. If there was a shop attached to the pub, they could hand in an order at the shop before they started drinking. And then, even if they drank away the rest of their paycheck, they’d still be handed a bag of groceries before they were kicked out and had to stumble home.

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    21 days ago

    A lot of blue collar workers went straight to the bar after work 3-4 days a week.

    I did sheet metal back in the 90’s for a year. Typical day… start at 6, off at 2:30, bar from 3-5. Pretty much everyday.

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    22 days ago

    It used to be a place for the working stiffs to gather and was priced accordingly. Nowadays capitalization has been overused to the point where a lot of businesses are pricing themselves out of customers.

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      22 days ago

      An average draft goes for $7-11 dollars in my city. And the $11 drafts are served in a smaller chalice than the cheaper stuff. I usually buy a 12 pack of beer for $24 from the store and get drunk at home when I can afford it.

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        21 days ago

        Holy fuck! Even today you can get a 30 pack of average beer like bud Budweiser for 25 ish.

        Back in the day I paid 3 a point for some cheap ass.

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          I’m buying IPAs they taste better to me and still feel like a bang for the buck, I grab a pack of Bell’s