• VeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I’m living in a city with a housing situation that’s fucked even if you have a halfway good income, and my lease will end this year.

    I am lucky enough to have a safety net of friends and family, but if I didn’t, I could very much face homelessness this year, as someone who’s employed, and “functioning” in the eyes of society.

    Sometimes I have half a mind to go to spend the rest of my existance in some remote monestary, but I feel I am not quite religious to the necessary degree. Or at all.

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    Does somebody to actually say that? I’d like to ask whether somebody worth listening to is actually saying that, but in this place that filters out way too many people.

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      I have a friend who chose it. Had a job with early retirement pension, was buying a house he could afford. They made a minor adjustment to his contract and he snapped, quit the job, abandoned the mortgage and let the house go back to the bank, and took his son and moved to California to live in his car. Ten years later he’s still doing that. He works occasionally as a delivery driver when he feels like it.

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        When you only are responsible for yourself this is a legit thing in my eyes. If this is the life he prefers and he is happy, go ahead.

        Doing this when you have a child is an irresponsible asshole move in my opinion. You are forcing your child into a live that just can’t be as healthy for them, physically and mentaly, then a more secure setting (that he had before) would be.

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          Yeah I agree on both sides. His son is an adult now and still lives a life much like his dad. It’s too bad he was raised in that situation. When I call him a friend, he’s really just one of the few high school friends I’ve kept in touch with. We live far from each other but we say hi online a couple times a year and we had lunch together about a year ago when I was in California for a wedding.

    • Soulg@sh.itjust.works
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      There actually is a very small group of people who do it willingly. Emphasis on very small

  • Queen HawlSera@lemm.ee
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    I am disgusted that poverty continues to be considered a failing of the individual when it should in reality be considered a failing of the group, and that group is America as a whole.

    Seriously, do other countries struggle with homelessness anywhere near this badly?

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      In Germany we have had a significant rise in homelessness lately. Hompless people are present in every city. France feels very much the same when I visit. Britain has loads of them.

      We as a group maybe is not just US-Americans after all, but the minority world (the “West”) as a whole.

      It’s a systemic issue, that is for sure. It just not on my the US system that is fucked. Maybe a bit more fucked, as Homelessness is more widespread that in Europe. But defenetly not exclusive to the US.

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      Yes. Parts of Canada have serious homelessness problems and many cities like mine like to pretend we don’t. Our mayor routinely gets the police involved to relocate them and then is just like see problem solved!

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    13 hours ago

    will smith burned a town to the ground with a single hadouken and it’s still going

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    It is a choice though, a choice by the oligarchs and policy makers who run this shit show of a planet. It just isn’t a choice on behalf of the people who are actually suffering.

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    There’s still time to donate to Trump’s inauguration fund in order to get federal disaster relief.
    /s

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    Yes, My friend,

    When I was homeless,

    I had “chosen” to be disabled,

    “chosen” to live in a country where applying for benefits takes years,

    “chosen” to live in a country where healthcare costs weren’t covered after I lost my job,

    “chosen” to live in a country where the landlord’s profit was more important than my survival.

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    It is a choice. An intentional policy choice. Made by our government on behalf of an oligarchy of parasitic oxygen thieves who should all be killed.

    But most of yall aren’t ready for that discussion.

    • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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      Ooh. Me, me, me… I am.

      The government doesn’t work for you. You vote then in, sure, but they work for the lobbyists of large corporate interests.

      Any policy you want will only pass if the corporations want it to, or they don’t believe it will make a substantive difference in their ability to exploit your labor for profit, and take from you every dime, nickel, and dollar they can. They’ll only keep you happy enough to not revolt, and beyond that, you’re entirely fucked from all angles.

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      But most of yall aren’t ready for that discussion.

      Do you know where you are

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        This is a .world comm, anything that doesn’t repeat CIA introduced facts is usually banned for misinformation, and anything that threatens or challenges the world is that US capitalism is the best thing for humanity is banned and suppressed.

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          Lemmy servers aren’t that well separated from each other. Saying that stuff anywhere on Lemmy is preaching to the choir.

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            You’d think so, but . world’s TOS is a poison that tends to enshittify all its comms eventually. It’s also absolutely not preaching to the choir on e.g. world or news .world.

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              I hear the same sentiment here daily. It’s a highly popular sentiment too.

              If .world is trying to silence it then they’re doing a piss poor job.

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                Id love to leave it back there, except everyone on .world is celebrating the Tiktok ban because ‘those sneaky Chinese were stealing their data’. Half of .world believes China is a dictatorship with xi being a king. This level of propaganda didn’t end in the 1950s.

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      The government isn’t a monolith.

      Yes, there are oligarchs influencing policies that make a standard of living hell on earth.

      There are also great people within the government who are actively trying to improve the state of things.

      • The Quuuuuill@slrpnk.net
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        it’s all about possession of power. the good people working for the feds have to do their good work despite their bosses handing our value over to the greedy parasites

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          No, it’s all about who possesses money. Corporations got $100 against every one of your puny worthless votes.

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      You know, I’ve heard that quote a lot and it never occurred to me to ask before. What’s the difference between a rape and a legitimate rape? Is there a form to fill out or something?

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        I think that the way it works is if you have no proof then it didn’t happen if you do in the most irrefutable form its convenient if it somehow magically proves their innocence instead of their guilt.

        Also a lot of them identity more so with the perps

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        It’s just another form of Christian guilt. She actually wanted it and enjoyed it, etc.

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        It’s ultimately just more shit he imagined to be true. He claimed it was a law enforcement term used for reported rapes but law enforcement disagrees it’s a term they use.

        But basically he’s saying of you are raped and you report it to law enforcement the body suddenly is able to shut down the ability to pregnancy.

        Best outcome is he is really really stupid and was told about the morning after pill they offer with the rape kit and didn’t understand. Probably because his congnitive dissonance as an America Christianity™ kicked in and replaced the science with magic.