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    As an atheist, I don’t go around bashing on others’ beliefs - as long as they’re respectful to others and don’t use their beliefs to police others.

    A grandma on her deathbed, trying to find comfort in her faith? Hell, I will sit with her and confirm that she’s indeed about to see her dead husband and spend eternity with him. Because at that point, being kind is more important than being right or debating theology.

    But, the moment you try to use your beliefs to dictate how others live (beyond basic morality, going beyond the golden rule), out comes the “fuck off with your imaginary sky daddy” argument. You are free to live your life by any doctrine you want, as long as it doesn’t affect others negatively. You don’t want to eat meat? Sure, go for it. You don’t want to eat pork/beef/seafood? It’s your body, your choice. You don’t want to get an abortion or transition to a different gender or be in a gay relationship? Again, it’s up to you. But the very second you try to tell others to live by your rules, you can fuck right off, and then fuck off some more just for good measure.

    And it’s not like I’m not open to debate. I guess at the end I’m more agnostic rather than atheist, in this aspect. I welcome theological debate. I’ll gladly argue about it for hours as long as you’re respectful. I’ve got a bunch of theist friends - Christians, Muslims, Hindu, a variety of pagan/wiccan witches, and so on - with whom we do sit down on occasion with a drink or a joint and debate various aspects of belief, religion (organised or personal), their effects and influences on society and vice versa. It can be a brilliant topic of discussion as long as everyone respects the others and listens to their side. After all, every single person has their own point of view formed by their upbringing, their life experiences, and so on, and these are equally important regardless if you agree with them or not. But it’s equally important to understand that these debates aren’t meant to convert anyone. They are there to convey a part of you you find important, so others can better understand you. Understanding why one turned away from, or turned to religion, and how that helped them as a person.

    To summarise: religion is like a penis. It’s okay to have one, it’s okay to not have one. It’s even okay to be proud of (not) having one. Hell, it’s even okay to think yours is better than others’. What’s not okay is pulling it out in public and trying to force it down others’ throats, or try to legislate in the form of a dick measuring contest.

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      I agree that this is the best approach to it. Live and let live.

      I’m an atheist as well, and I definitely went through that stereotypical antagonistic phase when I was much younger, and now I cringe about it. I’ve softened on religion a lot since then and no longer view it as a human failing that has only caused harm. I respect that others may have reached a different conclusion than me, and I recognize that religion has served as a vehicle for culture that has driven much of the societal progress and values that we take for granted today.

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        I was very antagonistic because I grew up an atheist in a conservative ultracatholic hell. Now I live in a chill place that used to also be conservative ultracatholic hell. I got to meet religious people that didn’t sincerely believe that I deserve to be tortured forever for not believing in what they do, who aren’t bigots, who believe in abortions, who hate rapist priests. When people aren’t mad at you all the time, it’s so much more peaceful to reciprocate.

        It’s easy to fall into antitheism when the only religious people around you are structurally supporting evil, it’s hard when you see that people can actually have a positive relationship with their religion and community, even if they are incorrect about some metaphysical truth.

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      fuck off with your imaginary sky daddy

      Do one better, tell them that your sky daddy is bigger than theirs and could beat him in a fight, then pull out pamphlets on your chosen fake god and give them to them for a change.

      Literally did it last week, couple Mormons came to sell me bullshit, I pulled out a couple pamphlets from The Church of the SubGenius and told them the good word of “Bob”. Much more fun, and it’s harder for them to dismiss than anti-theism outright because they’re used to that but like nobody does this lmao.

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          The only “Bob” that matters of course, the Saint of Sales and One True Slack Master himself, J. R. “Bob” Dobbs. “Bob” is the founder of The Church, in 1953 while working on a television set it shocked the living ghee out of him and through this he communicated with JHVH-1 (Jehovah as you may know him), he pretends to be a god but he told “Bob” the Truth, he’s an evil alien from some corporate sin galaxy here to take our Slack! After this Revelation “Bob” founded The Church to help save the True SubGenii (that’s me, and maybe you! Find out at www.subgenius.com or send $5 to “Bob” at P.O Box 807 Glen Rose TX 76043 and request the pamphlet) hiding amongst the humans and stop JHVH-1. To do this he sold the planet to the good aliens, the X-ists, who will come rupture all the ordained SubGenii into the PleasureSaucers come X-Day (July 5th 1998, which hasn’t happened yet despite what The Conspiracy wants you to think. 2026, pfft yeah right, then where’s my Saucer?).

          It’s true, scout’s honor.

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      And also like a penis, keep it away from children. It sickens me how much religion preys on children to indoctrinate them before they have the critical thinking skills to see through the grift.

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      I guess at the end I’m more agnostic rather than atheist, in this aspect.

      I don’t like how agnostic and atheist have been used. Atheist means a lack of belief in a god. Anti-theist is the active belief there isn’t one. Agnostic is someone who knows that they cannot know if there’s a god. Agnostic atheist is someone who knows they can’t know if there’s a god and lacks the belief in one.

      Agnostic is not the same claim as atheist or theist. It is a claim on the ability to know something, not on the beliefs that person holds. A gnostic atheist is the same as an Anti-theist. They think they can know there isn’t a god. The inverse for a gnostic theist. You can also be an agnostic theist, who doesn’t think it can be known, but they still believe.

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        Okay then let me rephrase my beliefs:

        • I do not believe in any deity et al
        • I do not dismiss the potential for a higher being to exist
        • I will not believe in such an entity until undismissable, scientifically verifiable, direct proof is given
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      Lmfao that summary. I have a very similar approach to life. It’s blindingly apathetic, for the most part. I just don’t care which way your gate swings, what, if any sky daddy you believe in etc. My only rule is simple: don’t be a shitbag. That’s it. That’s all. Treat people like they’re humans. If you are a shitbag, out comes the billy club.

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      You don’t want to eat meat? Sure, go for it.

      But the very second you try to tell others to live by your rules, you can fuck right off,

      I agree with you, it’s cruel to force others to live by your dietary rules. I’m personally vegan, and I’m completely fine with meat eaters as long as they don’t force their dietary choices onto other people or animals.

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        Right? It’s maddening to see that meat eaters can not see this incredibly obvious contradiction in their otherwise commendable live and let live mentality.

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    As an atheist, I never bring up my beliefs unless asked. My religious friends and relatives on social media spout their shit non-stop. If I did 1/10th of that they’d be up in arms.

    This post just seems like a straw man to try and keep atheists invisible.

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      Correct, plus if it’s reddit it’s possibly a bot created specifically to make that straw man real. Christians in particular have a persecution fetish, after all.

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        Eh I mean I was there 15 years ago when /r/atheism was a default subreddit (when default subreddits were a thing, nowadays I believe that’s no longer the case). Some of the commenters/posters seemed like they’d be genuinely exhausting people in real life. Not a majority by any means, otherwise I would’ve unsubscribed fairly quickly.

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        They found Russian agents working through social media to widen rifts in the US electorate, specifically on the vaccine debate. They had agents playing both sides: pro-vax and anti-vax.

        Who knows how many entities are doing this right now? On which topics? On which social networks?

        So, yes, fake atheists being assholes, but also fake Christians being assholes. You are always being manipulated. There is never a time you are not being manipulated.

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        Well then isn’t it refreshing that a real human stole that reddit bot post who stole it from a human on twitter and gave it to us here on Lemmy, restoring it back to human-to-human sharing.

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      Annoying militant atheists are definitely rarer than annoying militant christians, but they do exist. Especially on reddit. One of the reasons I enjoy lemmy is that those people are rarer.

      Fun side fact: I knew one of my two best friends for over a decade before finding out they were christian. They had been wearing the same cross necklace under their shirt that whole time. We just never talked about it because it didn’t come up and they aren’t preachy.

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      Don’t worry. I got you covered. I whine about religion all the time and make sure to mention I’m an atheist. As you said, they’re constantly pushing their thing down other people’s throats. If they can’t handle the comments, they should keep it to themselves. The same way they want gay people to keep it to themselves.

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        yeah this is the part that slays me. “vocal atheists are so annoying”

        asshole, how many times have atheists knocked on your door?

        how many atheists did you encounter on your way to your pap smear at planned parenthood?

        fucking hypocrites, child rapists and child rape accomplices.

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    only people i’ve seen torment the dying at their beside is the christians.

    always the same spiel… repent while you can, save your soul from eternal damnation. if you don’t repent you’ll spend all eternity in fire and torture, etc etc etc.

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        Since when have Christians, especially the loud ones, based their beliefs on a book they’ve never read?

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        But Jesus does threaten hell for the mistreatment of the poor, the imprisoned, the hungry, and foreigners.

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    I hate organized religion with a passion. You bet your ass I was “catholic” when my grandfather passed and I was helping my grandmother with the funeral though. Im an atheist, not an asshole. I’m sure if their imaginary friend actually exists they can forgive me for pretending to believe to console my grieving grandmother

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    All I know is i’ve never had an athiest knock on my door too damned early on a Saturday morning to tell desperatly try to get me to believe in their particular lack of belief.

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    Yea this totally happens in real life. Deeeeefinitely not a strawman you made up to feel better about yourself.

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    This was me at my step-nephew’s funeral after he killed himself.

    The whole service they were talking about him being in heaven. According to their own religious text he would go straight to hell. Luckily I was able to keep my mouth shut.

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      my wife’s mom’s funeral the priest kept going on about this passage where it described how thick the walls were in heaven. “Imagine Becky looking at those walls!”

      ok my dude, you’re not really selling this to me

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      Does the Bible actually say this anywhere? I know this is a Catholic interpretation, and probably most other Christian religions.

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        Hell isn’t really in the Bible. Iirc most interpretations of hell come from revelations where the anti-Christ and the beast (along with all the wicked and unsaved) are thrown into the Lake of fire on judgement day by Christ. That’s it. There isn’t anything about different circles of hell, or eternal damnation (there’s a lot of debate about if the Lake of fire is instant annihilation, temporary torment to cleanse the soul, or permanent eternal torment)

        Afaik it was largely created through some wild interpretations of the church in order to sell indulgences (get out of sin free cards) which funnily enough is how Gutenberg was allowed to keep printing. His new printing press was amazing at mass producing indulgences which were handwritten and quite lengthy. Now the church had a way to produce their “sin for free” tokens in bulk. If it weren’t for that Gutenberg might have been shut down for cutting in on the church’s monopoly on books.

        Dante’s inferno also had a massive influence on the Christian interpretation of hell. Afaik it was also largely made up or “artistic license” was used to make hell into what it is in the book.

        Edit: added clarity

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    This post is like a litmus test for separating pretentious reddit atheists from people who can actually take a joke, bravo

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    Let’s be honest: Going “(Your) God isn’t real” when someone tells you a “God bless you” is straight disrespectful. It’s their way of wishing you good things.

    I have an helenist friend whom I’d reply “Let’s hope for it” if they said “hope the Gods are with us on this”. Am I a Helenist? No.

    I tell my dad a “You too!” when he says “may God protect you on your way!”. Am I a Christian? Nope!

    But is this their way of wishing someone a good day/good luck? Yes. The intention is what counts, after all.

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      Ah fuck that.

      I don’t think that many atheist would display this religious behavior, because this is the shit that religious types do all the fucking time

      This meme is basically “every accusation is a confession”

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        Well, I do see tons of atheists do it. If your reality is different than mine, this is not my problem. I talked about mine, you stay on yours.

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          Yeah, speaking as a pagan, literally every stripe of religious people has annoying as shit people. Often they’re people who feel insecure in their beliefs whether because they’re new to them or because they feel those beliefs are under attack.

          Like yeah, I’ve met those annoying atheists as well as atheists who I only knew were such because it came up. Several of my childhood friends went from the former to the latter.

          I will say though, atheists don’t try to make their religious beliefs legally mandatory, so I’ll take some annoyance over that.

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          You’ve seen tons of atheists be douche canoes to their dying grandmothers? You have an impressively large but close knit circle of inconsiderate people.

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            Yeah, people do tend to be inconsiderable around me. Not only to grandmothers, but to relatives who say a mere “God bless you”.

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    What is it with people these days that atheism is suddenly considered a bad thing?

    Is it better to live with a psychosis, believing that you have a persona relationship with a sky creature that also talks back to you and helps specially you?

    And no, most atheists aren’t the type of asshole who would start jeering against a grandmother who just wants to be with her dead husband again.

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      I feel like atheism has always been considered a bad thing? It’s more widely accepted now than it ever has been.

      I totally agree it is the more logical belief, but, religious types not liking non-believers is nothing new

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        There’s so many religious influence types these days that spend the entire time hating on atheists. They put out content like “ONE question that THE GODLESS™ CAN’T answer” and it’s always something like “if humans evolved from apes, why are they still apes around” or something equally dumb.

        It’s always the type that sees science as the enemy. As if it’s a competition.

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      What is it with people these days that atheism is suddenly considered a bad thing?

      People who need the existential fear of eternal damnation to keep from raping, assaulting, etc etc cant stand the idea of there being people who exist who don’t need an existential threat to just be decent people.

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      I think the edgy and outspoken atheist Redditor archetype has had a negative effect on people’s view of atheists in general.

      I don’t totally disagree with that view and I do enjoy memes like this one

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        Also because atheists are a lot like vegans. How do you know if someone’s a vegan? You probably have to be told, because you aren’t paying that much attention to what other people are eating.

        A lot of religious people only notice atheists when they’re being annoying. If you’re a Christian who’s not annoying about it, it’s not like you’re asking people to do stuff when a Christian would be busy, you’re more likely to default to assuming they just go to a different church.

        There’s also people who take being told when it’s relevant as a pushy annoyance

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      I don’t think this paints all of atheism as a bad thing, just satirizes militant atheists who struggle with the fact that others can peacefully hold beliefs that are incompatible with their own. Reddit’s full of them, and they’re the equivalent of the evangelizing Christian that jumps on the “you need Jesus” spiel at the first whiff of non-Christian views.

      In my (atheist) opinion, the two are equally obnoxious.

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      What is it with people these days that atheism is suddenly considered a bad thing?

      Sir, this is just a joke.

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      This and phrases like ‘my brother in christ’ are pushed heavily in memes as subversive religious programming.

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    This is truly the behavior to expect from theists. You’re lying there waiting for death and some wannabe preacher tells you that it’s not too late to join their cult

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      I was at a funeral where the preacher was doing that! “If she were here now, she would tell you to make sure that you get your life right with Jesus.” Um, no, she fucking wouldn’t! Her fiance was sitting in front of me, and I thought I could see smoke coming out of his ears.

      It was her family’s funeral, though, and apparently they were Christians.

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      What, that she says she gets to go be with g-pa? Let her have her moment. OP is making this situation way more complicated than it needs to be.

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      Absolutely, You can be actively in the process of dying and they will be bible thumping your chest.

      I don’t go door to door telling people they should be atheist but at least once a year someone knocks on my door to talk to me about Christ.

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        Some of them actually believe that if they can get you to say the magic words, you’ll go to heaven instead of hell.

        If I thought I could prevent someone from eternal pain and suffering, and instead have them go to a place where the creator of everything, including… uh… hell…

        OK, never mind.

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          I wouldn’t mind if there was a god who created a hell, if hell is the special place reserved for fascists, human traffickers, and greedy billionaires who destroy the planet.

          People act like this god guy is such a dick for creating a hell. As if they really want to share an afterlife with everyone who ever lived.

          Somehow the paradox of intolerance dovetails into this, but I’m too lazy to explain how.

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            I would mind: if you’re all-powerful then why create fascists, human traffickers, greedy billionaires, and the majority of people who are making the biosphere uninhabitable for most genera? And why punish them with hell, when you created them that way? That’s just sadistic.

            I understand wanting a hell for bad people, because most people do extremely evil things:

            • voting to be ruled by openly greedy, sociopathic liars (with only about 1-4% of voters choose ethical candidates);
            • giving money to factory farmers and fishermen;
            • contributing to human overpopulation;
            • etc.;

            but I still prefer honesty and saying there’s absolutely no evidence that a biblical hell is real.

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              Oh come on, that is so easily answered by the concept of free will. An all-powerful god doesn’t create a universe populated by sentient beings just to control everything that any of them do. That’s just silly.

              Human beings are endowed with free will, and given a choice: use it for good or evil. You can try to be morally neutral, but ultimately you’re either serving yourself or others. It’s possible to balance doing both, but that means neither is to the exclusion of the other and therefore still counts as doing good.

              It’s so lazy to just ask “Why did god let people do evil things in the first place.” Do you really expect me to believe the concept of free will has never crossed your mind when asking this question?

              And I never said that a biblical hell is real, I was just following along with the hypotheticals of the previous comments.

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                Do you really expect me to believe the concept of free will has never crossed your mind when asking this question?

                Free will is so obviously an illusion to me (since no-one in recorded history has ever been able to magic their way around causality) that I sometimes forget that most people, especially religious people, think they have free will. I should have stated that.

                If free will is real for people tho, then God isn’t all-knowing or all-powerful, which means it’s not God - unless you use a definition of God that extremely few people in the West or Middle-East hold.

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                  Free will isn’t about magic or causality. Framing it like that just shows you misunderstand the concept of free will.

                  We’re bound by circumstances and possibility, yes. That doesn’t contradict free will, because free will is about self-determination: being able to choose a course of action from among the possibilities, rather than being compelled one way or the other by some extrinsic force such as fate.

                  For example, say you go to a restaurant. They give you the menu. You get to choose anything on the menu, and maybe even make a special request, and no one is compelling you to choose one thing or another.

                  They might say “No, we can’t do that” when you ask if they can substitute hush puppies for a side. That’s not a contravention of your free will, they might just not have hush puppies.

                  Just because the menu doesn’t include everything in the universe doesn’t mean you don’t have free will when choosing an option.

                  Also, free will doesn’t contradict god being omniscient or omnipotent. I don’t know why you keep implying that it does, but you haven’t presented any rationale for why we should suppose that.

                  This doesn’t mean I believe in a god, by the way. I’m just telling you that your logic about free will and omnipotence doesn’t add up.

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                If humans have free will then god is not omnipresent omnipotent, we’re all powerful.

                Evil exists in the world because God allows it or because he’s powerless to stop it.

                Even if God is not omnipresent omnipotent and does not know everything you will do, Then he is still making creatures to which he will torture for all eternity if they do not align with him. The most morally just thing at all would be to create nothing or at least create things that are not bound to heaven or hell.

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                  False, endowment of freewill doesn’t logically contradict omnipotence. And your statement “we’re all powerful” is a giant leap. Free will is not omnipotence.

                  Evil exists in the world because God allows it or because he’s powerless to stop it.

                  (Assuming we’re going with theistic explanations for the purposes of argument), Evil exists because humans are endowed with free will, meaning god gives humans a choice of how to behave. Anything less would make us mindless automatons/slaves, which would arguably be evil.

                  Then he is still making creatures to which he will torture for all eternity if they do not align with him.

                  Assuming an omnibenevolent god, hell would be a place for genocidiers and fascists and other people who caused untold suffering for others, who would then be tortured for eternity by their own degeneracy because when you remove the pleasures of the flesh from the equation, there’s nothing left to distract one from one’s own inner life.

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          multiple protestants have theological holes in their boats

          hell is not eternal suffering its just the state of nonexistence as you will be in hell as you were without God aka nonexistent, God made you.

          And you cant have torture and suffering without life, so you cant have eternal torture and suffering if you do not have eternal life, and if you have eternal life, you aint going to hell.

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        Tell them they can stop, go home, and enjoy time with the fam. I found Christ, and I stopped the problem.

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      if you say “religious” you have no valuable opinion on Christianity

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      Idk i think atheism is just as presumptuous and asinine as theism.

      Atheists don’t tend to fall down the nationalism - fascism hole quite as frequently, but they can be just as annoying.

      I just don’t know what’s wrong with admitting we don’t know. We can’t perceive everything and there is still too much mystery for me to subscribe to anything. That being said, I do not use the promise of an afterlife to live well, I justify that by making happiness my goal, I just can’t say definitively there is nothing going on beyond what we know, spiritually speaking. I don’t think any religion has gotten it right because how could they if we can’t perceive everything?

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        The vast majority of atheists are agnostic atheists, and “we don’t know” is that in a nutshell. Gnostic atheists who “know” there is no god are rather rare but very loud.

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          gnostic or agnostic, atheists are just not convinced. Like I dont believe you, that you have a unicorn at home. If I am gnostic or agnostic about that matter isnt really too important to anyone.

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            Gnostic atheists aren’t just not convinced, gnostic means “to know”, e.g. certainty. Agnostic atheism is “I’m not convinced, therefore I don’t believe in god.” and gnostic atheism is “I believe there is no god.” They would usually phrase it “I know”, but let’s be real it’s a belief.

            Personally I find the distinction important, because gnostic atheists are annoying. This is why I usually label myself simply agnostic when asked.

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              Yes, you yould make the argument that it is impossible to know that there is no god, as the existence of a god is unfalsifiable. But if your definition of agnostic is this strict, then noone is really an agnostic atheist, because you cannot know that there isnt a very quiet and passive god which doesnt intervene on earth after Jesus. Its just not falsifiable. So if someone examines all arguments by scholars and the most avid theists for a god and comes to the conclusion that they are all bad/not good enough, then I’d argue that this person is a gnostic atheist. Because what else is one supposed to take to become gnostic? You cannot make scientific experiments to prove that there is no god.

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                You cannot make scientific experiments to prove that there is no god.

                And I can appreciate that this is frustrating for a lot of people, but it is simply unknowable.

                Because what else is one supposed to take to become gnostic?

                The default position is “I don’t know”. It’s OK to sit there, you don’t have to have the answer. If you want to get to “I know and here’s the answer”, you either need to prove it or make a leap of belief.

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            Gnostic and agnostic are not opposites!

            Edit: they certainly look like they’re opposites, but just like deontology and ontology aren’t opposites, these two words are just awkwardly related. See e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gnosticism which is not just “believing in a god”. I’d say a proper antonym for atheism is theism/deism.

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                They are of course, but that’s not the meaning I attach to those words.

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              respectfully, your edit made it even more clear that you are misunderstanding the context and meaning of the terms in this case. agnostic / gnostic atheism needent necessarily have anything to do with gnosticism as a general term.

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                True enough, but even still I don’t see that “gnostic atheism” is obviously the opposite of “agnostic atheism”. In any case it’s not what I claimed. The terminology is confusing and I was hoping to be helpful, although I see now I was far too glib.

                https://hmolpedia.com/page/Gnostic_atheist

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                  True enough, but even still I don’t see that “gnostic atheism” is obviously the opposite of “agnostic atheism”.

                  They aren’t, but that wasn’t the claim. Here’s what you said:

                  Gnostic and agnostic are not opposites!

                  The article you linked explains how they’re opposites. Gnostic and agnostic are opposites, just like theism and atheism are opposites.

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                  right, one type of atheism and another type of atheism arent “opposites” and no one said they were.

                  the prefix in question and how it functions in this case are indeed opposites. one is a position of certainty about the topic, and one is a position of a lack of that certainty.

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                I take your point. For the record if you do claim that gnosticism and atheism are indeed opposites, them isn’t “gnostic atheism” an oxymoron?

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                  no no … its like this … within the context of atheism the prefixes gnostic and agnostic refer to the following term “atheism”.

                  atheist refers to belief gnostic / agnostic refers to certainty

                  no one claimed anything about gnosticism at all, let alone that its the opposite of atheism. thats doubly wrong. also, iirc you are the one who introduced opposites into this conversation. i do agree the whole situation is semantically confusing. :)

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              Oh, I see. “Gnostic” has more than one meaning. It can mean “A believer in Gnosticism”, but it can also mean “Of, relating to, or possessing intellectual or spiritual knowledge.” I’m using the American Heritage Dictionary, but you can find similar definitions in other dictionaries.

              In this case, I’m sure that most people can figure out that a gnostic atheist isn’t an atheist who believes in Gnosticism.

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                Totally right. Worse again though, there is a lesser known term “gnostic atheist”, but it doesn’t quite mean “a spiritual believer in the absence of a god”, nor any other straightforward guess.

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          because to consider yourself a “gnostic atheist” you need to do some amount of research, consider the arguments for a god (or the regionally modt believed in god(s)) and then come to the conclusion that all of the arguments are not convincing. You can still be unconvinced after an honest examination of course and consider yourself an agnostic. But from my experience most agnostics are just indifferent to the whole question about gods, so they naturally dont have a strong opinion about it and dont voice it.

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            Finding arguments unconvincing would still be definitionally agnostic. To be a gnostic atheist, you have to posit an argument that no deity/whatever could exist, not just that’s it’s exceedingly unlikely.

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              i had misread this part here “To be a gnostic atheist” and attempted to politely correct what i misread as “agnostic atheist” my bad. good comment!

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          I figured this was the case. The loud ones tend to set the stage, unfortunately. I’d personally just consider myself to be fully agnostic, but I’m sure I share a significant base of beliefs with most agnostic atheists.

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        I say there isn’t a god the same way I say the sun will rise tomorrow and the universe won’t blink out of existence. In truth, nothing is certain or absolutely knowable; there’s always the unknown unknowns and axioms which are untestable. But I have no reason to believe that lawn gnomes come alive when they’re not being watched; just because I can’t be absolutely certain to exactly 100% certainty doesn’t mean I also can’t confidently state that claim’s full of shit.

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        Right? There is some hubris is this absolute certainty without room for doubt. Thats just not scientific to me, either.

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        if enough people started saying so, would you think theres a chance that shoelaces are sentient even though theres no evidence to support that and all reasonable evidence supports the opposite conclusion? ofc not, so why should i entertain the idea of gods. hmu when you have some evidence.

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          You are walking, talking evidence of militant atheists being asinine.

          I will not be elaborating.

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              I don’t know you and I have no obligation to be kind to strangers. You’ll live, I’m sure.

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                just dropping an ad hominem and peacing is a poor way to engage in my opinion. be well.

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                  I’ll give that, I shouldn’t have called you asinine. I will rephrase.

                  Your behaviour is asinine – and not making me any less annoyed at militant atheists.

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      Religious people and vegans are exactly the same. They both claim absolute nonsense to be undeniable truth and are smug about everything they can’t prove.

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    Plot twist: Grandma is also atheist and we are both happy that wherever she is headed is the same place as grandpa and everyone else, the eternal nothingness from which we came.

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    I just love so much that some atheist(s) on reddit upset the fucking god botherers so much that this has become a drum they beat weekly after decades.

    sure bud, try to brand it as ‘oh those mean / inconsiderate atheists’ - sure thing child rapists, sure.

    edit: oh no someone upset the child rapists, gee whiz

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      I mean, I’m an atheist myself but the type of person they’re memeing here definitely does exist. Pretty much only confined to Reddit though. In my experience there are far more cringe theists in most other online spaces.

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        it’s also funny to me how many responses these threads get saying

        “well I’m an atheist but…”

        like, ok, good for you. And hey, I genuinely believe almost 3-5 % of these responses lol

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          You think I’m lying about being an atheist? Pretty sure that would be against some rule in the bible lmao.

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            lying or just trying to be a pick-me, I don’t care, I’m not your psychologist. There’s always people like you who show up and castigate their ‘fellow atheists’ for being annoying, but ignore the enormous harm - and huge annoyances the god botherers inflict upon society writ large.

            so sure, maybe you’re being truthful, I don’t give a fuck, it’s still silly.

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              I don’t know how you read my first comment and thought I was ignoring the damage theists do. I very explicitly stated that there are more cringe theists than atheists.

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                I don’t care pickme, I don’t believe you. “I’m an atheist but…” I don’t need allies like this. Go shit someplace else.

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                  You are being very aggressive lol. I’m not being a pickme, I couldn’t give less fucks what religious people think of me. I actively dislike religious people, and agree with you that religion is the root of a good amount of the evil in the world.

                  All I said was that annoying atheists do exist (I know, I was one of them).

                  If you won’t allow allies to lightly push back on your ideas then you’ll find yourself without many allies.

                  Have a great day anyway man.